Frequently Asked Questions
- What is the best way to book an appointment with you?
- What are the other ways of booking an appointment?
- Will I be contacted by you over the phone?
- Is the massage space private and do you do out calls?
- How long will a tantric massage session last and how is it structured?
- What do you mean by tantra being a "spiritual" experience?
- Is tantric massage naturist?
- What happens if I get an erection during the massage?
- Is the goal of tantric massage to ejaculate or have an orgasm?
- Can tantric massage improve my sexual potency?
- How do I need to prepare for my tantric massage therapy?
- Can I complete my assessment form in advance to save time?
- Do you offer any other types of massage?
- Do you treat couples?
- If I am visiting Sheffield and want more than 1 tantric massage in a visit/day/weekend OR am seeking some instruction in tantric massage, is this possible to arrange?
- Is your service available to everyone?
Q. What is the best way to book an appointment with you?
A. The best way to book an appointment is to book online using the electronic on-line system where you select your massage choice, the date and time of your massage and pay in advance. Booking in this way also gives clients a £10 discount on all the massages.
Q. What are the other ways of booking an appointment?
A. You can contact Tim by email. Alternatively, you can TEXT your preferred appointment date and time to Tim's mobile on 07964 788402. Although it is possible to book through a telephone call, Tim's policy is to refrain from answering the phone during client sessions, hence, you may experience some difficulty in making an appointment in this way.
Q. Will I be contacted by you over the phone?
A. As some clients do not wish to receive return calls, Tim will only return your call if you have left a voice mail or text message indicating that you wish him to return voice contact.
Q. Is the massage space private AND do you do OUT calls?
A. The massage therapy room is on the ground floor of a private home and is completely discreet. For Tantric Massages the therapy room is a sacred space with incense and candles. As Tantric Massage requires a sacred space and a degree of ritual, this work does not translate easily to home or hotel visits. However, for couples where each partner wants his own 2 hour massage, e.g. at least 4 hours treatment for 2 partners, then home visits are more likely to be arranged. For single treatments for out calls Tim can provide either a therapeutic massage or a naturist massage which has some tantric elements. Out calls will usually command an additional travel time fee, depending on location.
Q. How long will a Tantric Massage session last and how is it structured?
A. Visit the Tantric Massage Choices page for details on how the Tantric Massage is broken down into its stages.
All Tantric Massage sessions last TWO HOURS. The Tantric Massage session includes: initial discussion, breath-work, an undressing ritual and tantric bow, guided meditation, sensual massage, massage with a particular focus (depending on the tantric massage choice), energy channeling and resting. At the end of the session there will be an opportunity to shower.
Q. What do you mean by Tantra being a "spiritual" experience?
A. One of the aspects of Tantra Massage is a focus on building and channeling spiritual and emotional energy through the 7 Chakra or energy points in the human body. During Tantric Massage many people report experiences ranging from feeling connected to themselves for the first time, to having transcendental or out of body moments. Others find a sense of calm and peacefulness; a place of deep relaxation, or a new level of personal insight. Each person's experience and response to tantra is individual. Each Tantric Massage experience is different and unique.
Q. Is Tantric Massage naturist?
A. One element of all the Tantric Massages is an undressing ritual, where Tim undresses the client with great care before he undresses himself. The experience of mutual nakedness helps make the Tantric Massage experience extremely powerful for most men. The Therapist and Client treat each other with care, dignity and acceptance, being clear and respectful of each other's boundaries at all times.
Q. What happens if I get an erection during the massage?
A. Erections are part of being a man, and in Tantric Massage erections are welcome as a sign of relaxation and sexual energy. However, it is not necessary to experience an erection for the massage to be rewarding.
Q. Is the goal of Tantric Massage to ejaculate or have an orgasm?
A. The "G" Tantric, "A" Tantric and "YY" Tantric are focused on building sexual and chakra energy. The aim is for clients to repeatedly peak without release so that the chakra energy can permeate your whole body and you can develop your potential to experience whole body orgasms and become a multi-orgasmic man. Not ejaculating also extends the length of time spent in the orgasmic corridor and makes the later stages of the Tantric Massage experience much more intense.
Q. Can Tantric Massage improve my sexual potency?
A. In Tantric Massage, withholding ejaculation, whilst being highly aroused, may over time lead to your being able to experience stronger and longer lasting erections.
Q. How do I need to prepare for my Tantric Massage therapy?
A. Generally, it is expected that you will arrive freshly showered and ready for your massage session. However, clients that, due to circumstance, require a shower beforehand can do this. Otherwise the only preparation is for those clients who are choosing the "A" Tantric Massage, where douching prior to massage is beneficial. If you have any questions about what is involved in douching, please contact Tim for his advice.
Q. Can I complete my assessment form in advance to save time?
A. Yes. If you want to complete your assessment form in advance, please download the assessment form, complete it and bring it with you for your 1st massage. Alternatively you can send it via email using the contact form.
Q. Do you offer any other types of massage?
A In addition to the range of tantric massages, Tim can also provide relaxing Swedish Massage, Deep Tissue massage to ease muscle tension or a sensual naturist massage. For more details of these massage treatments please visit Tim's other website: www.massageformensheffield.co.uk.
Q. Do you treat couples?
A. Yes, Tim will treat couples, usually treating one client at a time, whilst the partner walks or has a hot drink in Graves Park, which is opposite the therapy room, or occupies himself until it is his turn for a massage. Couples who both require separate tantric massages may also be treated in their own home if they each wish to receive a 2 hour massage, e.g. at least 4 hours in total. Depending on location, this may also attract a travel time fee.
Q. If I am visiting Sheffield and want more than one tantric massage in a visit/day/weekend OR am seeking some instruction in tantric massage, is this possible to arrange?
A. Tim will work flexibly to provide the service you want. Tailor-made sessions can be organised. If this is something you are interested in, please contact Tim by email, outlining your requirements.
Q. Is your service available to everyone?
A. Tantric Massage for Men is a massage service available to all Men over 18 years of age regardless of their Sexuality, Race or Religion. Many of Tim's clients are straight heterosexual men. Others are bi-curious, gay or bisexual. If any of these areas raise questions for you about receiving massage please contact me.